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Lending to the Lord
Aug 7th
1 Chronicles 26:20-32; 1 Chronicles 27; 1 Corinthians 4; Proverbs 19:13-22 NIV
He who is kind to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will reward him for what he has done. – Proverbs 19:17
Several weeks ago, I was challenged about my attitude toward the poor. Now, I’m not saying I had any ill feelings toward them. In fact, I thought I was pretty compassionate – enlightened even – about the plight of the poor. I didn’t do the things that “less compassionate” people do. I tried to do what I was supposed to.
When I saw a homeless person, I reminded myself that he/she was a person, a child of God and someone with a unique story. I always made a point to look him/her in the eye because I had read somewhere that one of the most dehumanizing experiences people endure is watching others avoid eye contact. I even made a point to let them know that I would gladly give them some money, but I didn’t have any cash.
But here’s the thing: The reason I never had cash is because I never got cash. And I didn’t have any food or water to give them because I didn’t bring it from home. Let me be clear, it’s not as if these people just popped up at the intersection by surprise. Almost every day of the week, I drive past the same people at the same intersection. I know they’re going to be there.
So, one day as I was driving past that intersection, I really felt challenged. ”Why not go to the ATM and get cash specifically for this purpose?” And that’s just what I did. I went to the ATM later that day and withdrew $40. I reasoned that I could keep cash in my car that would be set aside for whenever I saw a panhandler or someone in need. Of course, I would need to stop somewhere and get some change for my two twenty dollar bills. Of course, that was the part I forgot.
I forgot until the next morning. As I was approaching the regular panhandler hangout, I realized that the smallest bill I had was a twenty. That’s when the real challenge came upon me. ”If there is someone there,” I asked myself, “what is the wise decision? Do I give this person a $20 bill, or do I just pretend I don’t have any cash and go on my way?”
Well, I know it’s become cliché, but in that moment, I actually asked myself what Jesus would do. As much as I tried, I couldn’t convince myself that Jesus would lie about not having any cash. I also couldn’t convince myself that Jesus would try to explain to the panhandler that he needed change. So, then and there, as I approached the intersection, I resolved to give up my $20 bill. It was the right thing to do.
As I got closer and closer to the intersection, I strained to see around the moving truck in front of me. I crossed my fingers, just hoping that for one day, there would be nobody in the intersection. I really didn’t want to give up my twenty! But, again, I resolved to do it. I even said it out loud! ”God, if there is someone standing there, even if the light is green, I won’t use any excuses. I’ll give them this $20 bill.”
To my surprise, when I arrived at the intersection, who was there? No one. Not a single person. This spot that constantly has 2 or 3 people asking for money, washing windshields or selling flowers, was completely empty on this nice sunny morning.
As I passed through the intersection, I thought about those people, though. I probably thought about them more that morning than any before or since. I thought about what it would have meant to one of them if they had received $20. I wondered why I had gone through this entire conversation with myself and God just to find nobody there. But most of all, I wondered how it was that I could be experiencing the “joy of giving” without having given anything.
Basically, it felt good to know that I would have given – to know that my heart and mind were prepared to do it. I think God allowed me to feel that, so that the next time, I wouldn’t hesitate. And, from that point forward, I haven’t hesitated. I did, however, get change because I can’t afford to give away $20 bills every day! I got change and kept it in my car. Then, every time I saw someone in need, I gave them cash. Eventually, it wasn’t a challenge or even a “feel-good” thing to do anymore. It was simply normal.
My normal-ness continued (through several ATM trips) until yesterday. Yesterday, I gave away my last few dollars and didn’t go to the ATM to get more. Then, once last night and twice today, I passed panhandlers and I had nothing to give. For the first one, my wife and I gathered all the change we could find. For the others, I had nothing. I didn’t have the tools I needed to be normal – to care for the poor.
I don’t like that feeling. I want to be kind to the poor. I want to be giving. I want to be loving. I want to, in the words of Proverbs “lend to the Lord”. I think that’s a pretty safe investment. And I guess it means I need to go to the ATM tomorrow!
